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While some infants are mild and joyful others
are irritable and cry persistently. Easy babies
are so pleasant to care for they may receive
(and give back) loads of affection and attention.
The fussy, spirited child may scream and kick
when given attention. As development unfolds,
the fussy child may feel aversive to the caregiver
and may receive less nurturance and affection.
This is a striking reality for some parents
who have an easy baby followed by a feisty
one (or vice-versa). Many parents feel guilty
and wonder if they have done something to
harm their child because the spirited ones
are so much more difficult to raise.
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