Many interventionists who work with
children with special needs are aware of the many times
that challenging behaviour is related to the difficulty
that some children have communicating their feelings,
needs and goals in a group setting. In fact, some theorists
believe that nearly all behaviour is a form of communication
and strongly urge interventionists not to simply react
and punish but to try to ascertain what the child's communicative
intent may be. While we do not take such a strong position
(in other words, we think that some behaviour has other,
non-communicative causes), it is a good practice to consider
whether there is a communication issue in any analysis
of a behavioural problem.
Another important consideration
is the temperament of the child. In this article, we consider
how temperament-related challenges--and the child's difficulty
in communicating them--can lead to behaviour problems
in groups.
The Impact of Temperament in Group Settings
The physical environment has a considerable impact on
the behaviour of children of all ages. When children have
temperament traits that cause them to be sensitive to
sound, odor, temperature or other stimuli they may lack
the insight to know this or the vocabulary to discuss
it. Unable to communicate their discomfort in words, they
may act out or withdraw. Some children have difficulty
processing language when there is background noise and
they may give up trying to understand or to respond, leading
to a serious communication breakdown. When this difficulty
is combined with temperament traits that are not fitting
well with the group expectations, a child may become truly
challenging in this setting. Some will react with intensity
to others when they are stressed by environmental factors;
others may withdraw and shut down. Occasional outbursts
or withdrawals are not of concern. However, repeated difficulties
coping will mean that a child is not 'on task' whether
the activity is educational or recreational. This can
lead to deficits in the important learning that comes
from these activities. Secondary emotional and behavioural
problems can also arise as the child experiences the consequences
of not coping and not learning. Groups that are structured
and predictable are nearly always easier for children
to cope with. However, some bright and creative children
and some children with low attention can become bored
if the routines lack variety and new activities and interests.
Getting the match right is difficult in groups as there
are so many individual differences to accommodate. Centres
and classrooms that recognise individual differences by
building a blend of consistency and novelty into their
programs are more likely to meet more individual needs.
Groups are not static entities but dynamic, ever-changing
systems that have a history in each child's mind. This
history will have an impact on the way the child's expectations
and responses.
Larry is a six-year old with a slow-to-warm-up
temperament and asthma. He has been having a struggle
to get hold of a particular favourite activity in his
out-of-school care program. Last week, over a period of
five days, every time he started to work on this activity,
a bigger boy came over and simply stood over Larry until
he gave it up. On the fifth day, Larry started to wheeze
severely the minute he walked in the door of the centre
and his parents had to be called to come and take him
to the hospital for treatment. His caregivers would not
have made the connection between the harassment and the
asthma attack but for the fact that a student teacher
had been in the centre. Larry was one of the children
she was observing for an assignment and she noted the
quiet way in which Larry simply handed over his activity
to the other boy. The hospital psychologist was able to
receive this useful information from the out-of-school
care program. She advised the staff and Larry's parents
to help him become more assertive and to be able to identify
his wants and desires first of all to the adults taking
care of him and then, in time, to other children. Larry's
temperamental style contributed to his unassertive communication
style, but slow-to-warm-up children can be taught how
to stand up for their rights.
Communication is a key solution
to these difficulties (but in itself will not solve everything).
Adults can help children find words to describe their
temperament-related responses, just as Dr. Levine advises
educating children about their learning problems in the
article above (Demystification--Communicating with A Child
with A Learning Difference). Teachers and other group
caregivers may in fact often hear such disclosures but
respond to them in ways which discourage children from
speaking out on their own behalf. However, the fact that
a child can identify the source of personal distress does
not give the child licence to do as he or she pleases
or to refuse to participate in the program, as some teachers
fear.
A child can be invited to suggest solutions to the
problem (such as working in a quieter area), to try a
compensatory method (such as chunking a complex learning
task) or even just to 'deal' with the problem, depending
on the situation. A lot of stress can be reduced simply
by hearing some validation. "I know waiting for your turn
on the trampoline is boring for you, Alan. But Nicole
has only three minutes left. Hang in there." This type
of statement does not have to be extremely warm and empathic.
A firm response can be both reassuring to a child in a
group setting and effective in maintaining disciplinary
control. In other situations, though, it is as important
to accommodate to the child with the temperament issue
as it to the child with a hearing-impairment or a physical
disability.
When one or two children are having temperament-related
challenges in groups, their resulting behaviour can overwhelm
peers and teachers. Often, simple solutions that go against
traditional teacher training or unthinking policy can
make a huge difference to both the children involved and
the whole climate of the setting. We invite
teachers and others who work with children in groups to
write and share with our readings the solutions they have
found to temperament-related challenges in their settings.
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